One of the goals of tantric sex is to help channel all of a persons sexual energy back into their body instead of releasing it during an orgasm.
There are many ways that this can be accomplished, however, ultimately it is all about prolonging the sex act in an effort to increase the sexual energy as well as enhance your level of intimacy with your partner.
Below you will discover some basic tantric sex tips to help you along in your journey with tantric sex.
Tantric Sex Tip #1 – Practice Tantric Breath
Establishing a rhythmic breath with your partner is one of the easiest and most powerful ways to truly establish an intimate connection with your partner. The tantric way of doing this is by moving into the yab-yom position which will have you straddling your partner’s lap and then inhaling when they exhale and vice versa. As they breathe out you might begin to notice yourself taking their breath into and down through your entire body. When you exhale make a conscious attempt to energize your breath in a way that has you sharing all of yourself with your partner.
Tantric Sex Tip #2 – Create a Tantric Intimate Space
To experience the most benefit from any tantric sex experience you are going to want to create a comfortable area that is both playful and relaxed. The first step in this process is removing any clutter from the room and decorating it with a variety of candles and cozy fabrics. Next, you are going to want to have a “sensual aroma” in this space that allows you to fully engage all of your senses natural oils such as jasmine, ylang-ylang, or rose are a few scents to consider.
Next, make sure that your bed is as comfortable as possible with sheets that feel soft to the touch as well as quite a few pillows.
Finally, make sure you softly fill the room with a soundtrack of music that you both like and will enhance your mood as well.
Tantric Sex Tip #3 – Keep Your Eyes Open
It has been said that the eyes are the window to the soul and since tantric sex is all about establishing the most intimate of connections with your partner you can quickly begin to realize now how keeping your eyes open and connected with your partners will create the most intimate of moments.
Interestingly enough, in the beginning keeping your eyes open throughout the entire process can be a challenge.
In other words, you want to utilize this tip as more of an intention rather than a rule as just staying consciously aware of this intention will provide you with a collection of glimpses that will transform the way you think about your partner and yourself.
Tantric Sex Tip #4 – Take Your Time and Slow Down
Also known as foreplay, taking your time and enjoying the journey rather than trying to arrive at the ultimate destination of orgasm is really what Tantra is all about. For men, slowing down in regards to the sexual act helps him last longer and for women it makes her more and more aroused.
The longer you linger in sexual foreplay the more energy that you create and the longer your lovemaking session lasts the greater the energy will be. Also, make sure to use this time to fully focus on each other; when your thoughts begin to wander gently bring your attention back to your partner and the wonderful experience of being in the present sexual moment now.
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